October 20, 2008

结婚~

每次参加婚礼都会有很多的感触.
心里会有一股结婚的冲动~
好想立刻对乐说:”不如我们明天去注册吧!”
哈哈~!
听见别人的男友如何向自己地女友求婚,心里都充满感动.
因为我觉得求婚是可以看见或听见自己爱的人向我许下的承诺,就算只是简单的一句:”我会永远的照顾你”.
就好象和以下的歌词Click到 ***
<<一个微妙的体贴 我知道今天会是情人节 不是第一次听你说永远 泪水还是涌成温泉>>
T-T
很感动吧!~~~~

曾经问过自己,什么时候会结婚呢?
三年前觉得是25 岁.
两年前觉得是26岁.
至今总觉得26岁结婚好像太早了吧!~ (女人总是善变的动物) :)

其实想几岁结婚也并不是自己能决定的.
听过太多的例子-拍拖了好几年,买了屋子,以为再过不久就可以披上婚纱,漂漂亮亮的嫁给自己心爱的人.
可是到头来却只是自己的梦,人家的心早已不知道飞向哪儿,屋子买了也可以不娶,结婚照拍了也可以当垃圾放在一旁.
怎么世上会有如此不知所谓的事呢?

**如果我有机会见到他, 我会狠狠的刮那男的几把掌! ~~然后, 再狠狠的往他的小弟踢一下 ~~ (够他好受啦)**

太过分了吧~!
说完就完,说不要就不要~
毕竟曾经爱了好几年,怎么会说不爱就不爱了呢???
感情事永远就是那么令人难以明白~~~

不是真的爱她,就不要向她求婚.
求婚了,就要负起这个责任,任何事情都是要顾虑到另一伴,而不是随随便便说分开就分开.
伤害了她,你或许也不好过.
但是,被你伤害的,往往都要用比你更多的时间来疗伤.~~

在这里给能真正成为夫妻的 - 真的要好好珍惜身边另一伴,
因为过去世深厚的缘分,才能让你们在今世成为夫妻.

2 comments:

*+yEeWeN+* said...

Haha... What wrong with you my dear sister? Write until like that? Goin marry already ar? Don't wan larx.. hahax... Anyway, He won't treat you like that, just stupid abit only... hahax...

Psionix said...

Well, personally I feel marriage will come only when both parties are ready for the commitment and responsibilities. In a way, it is sad but fortunate that the guy backed off the last minute. Sad that all these years of relationship and preparation for the wedding had come to nothing. Fortunate because a stop was placed before the marriage rather than after it!
Anyway, people change with their feelings and feelings change with people. And getting married is a vow to remain faithful to the other regardless of one's feelings. It is a very big commitment indeed!